Lilith’s mission was to speak her truth and possess her true power – and when we go through crises, we can find our strength and alchemize limiting beliefs that are not serving us. Deep growth and transformation can come from understanding our dark selves. As an astrologer, I use True Black Moon Lilith astrology to read this divine feminine power.
True Black Moon Lilith is not a planet, but the lunar apogee, or the most distant point in space in the elliptical orbit of the moon around the Earth. You can find your Lilith placement using a free online generator like astrolibrary.organd, from experience, the true position provides the most accurate information on how Lilith’s energy manifests itself in the experience of individual and collective life.
Curious to know what your real Lilith placement says about you? Read on to find out and also get a mantra to help you strengthen that energy.
See how to harness your personal power through the true placement of Lilith on your birth chart.
Lilith in Aries
Your naturally fierce and independent spirit may feel suffocated or crushed by others around you. This can create negative thinking patterns about your leadership skills.
His Lilith mantra: I am a powerful and intelligent leader. I am accepted and respected by others.
Lilith in Taurus
You either experienced a lack of abundance in growing up, or too much importance was attached to wealth. This may have created a fear of poverty for you, along with the belief that your self-esteem is linked to the material.
His Lilith mantra: Abundance is a way of thinking. I don’t let fear and my past control me. I am worthy of love and truth.
Lilith in Gemini
You have incredible ideas, but you tend to keep them to yourself due to the negative reactions you receive from others. You may have felt ridiculed in the past for speaking, or you just didn’t feel heard.
His Lilith mantra: I am seen, heard and accepted. The more I speak my truth, the easier it will become. I don’t absorb other people’s opinions of me.
Lilith in Cancer
You need to nourish and feel nourished, but you may not have received it when you were young. Your inner child can create similar instances where you seek this from outside sources.
His Lilith mantra: I practice self-care. I give myself the nutrition and love I need daily. With that, I will attract people in my life who will naturally radiate it back to me.
Lilith in Leo
You are a creative, playful and fun soul, but you may have to grow up fast or this was not accepted. Embrace your inner child and tell him that it is okay to go out and play.
His Lilith mantra: I was placed on this Earth to shine and create. Only I know the mission of my life and I will express myself with authenticity.
Lilith in Virgo
You may have had a need for perfection instilled in you, and this may have carried you into adulthood. You can place unrealistic expectations about yourself and others.
His Lilith mantra: I love myself and I am putting aside the answer of shame to be perfect. My unique essence and aura are beautiful, just as they are.
Lilith to Libra
You tend to attract power struggles in relationships, as this is something that you may have witnessed in your family dynamics early in life. The secret is to honor your own power to change that pattern in your life.
His Lilith mantra: I know how powerful I am as an individual. This allows me to balance the scales harmoniously in my relationships.
Lilith in Scorpio
The power of your sexuality is strong, but you felt ashamed of it as a result of certain challenging events in your life. This can make you feel closed and uninspired when it comes to intimacy.
His Lilith mantra: I release what happened in the past. I am divinely protected and guided. My power connects me with a higher source and I feel safe to express myself.
Lilith in Sagittarius
Your beliefs may be too “out there” for other people, or you can advocate for causes that are not widely accepted. Listening to others while honoring their opinion is the key.
His Lilith mantra: What is popular is not always right. I have confidence and faith in the universe. I listen to others openly, but I also weigh the facts and stand firm in my truth.
Lilith in Capricorn
This is a place where social status, power and prestige are important. You may not have understood how to exercise this natural ability early in life and felt that this energy was rejected by others.
His Lilith mantra: The time has come for me to not only possess my true power, but to use it to uplift and empower others. I am the ruler of my reality.
Lilith in Aquarius
His unique personality, individual thinking and peculiarity may have been seen as exaggerated in the past. As a result, you may have been assimilated by those around you. This can lead to feelings of accomplishment.
His Lilith mantra: I will let my inventive spirit and unconventional thoughts come without remorse. Even if I am ahead of my time, I will leave my unique mark on this world.
Lilith in Pisces
Pisces marks the end of the zodiac wheel and is a place where karma can build and accumulate. You may have felt responsible for a pain that was not yours. The tendency to escape reality and dissolve with the world around you can occur.
His Lilith mantra: I tap into my opposite polarity to be grounded in reality, but I know that my dreams and visions are valid. I channel my subconscious vision and use it to create my reality positively.